Graciously contributed by Sarah Guglielmi.

Fall is in full swing here in the Northeast– it’s the season of change and contrast! Striking colors on the trees move into muted shades of barren brown; yesterday’s clear blue skies were replaced by a cold wintery wind today.

Fall is the season of “wind.” The air and space elements are more dominant in nature, bringing forth qualities of cool, light, dry, and variance. We can see these qualities in nature around us, and if we take a closer look, many of us will find these qualities inside as well. Remember, we are a microcosm of the macrocosm, and natures’ rhythms are at work both outside and inside of us.

Air and space comprise the vata dosha, and it is common to experience some vata imbalance during the Autumn season. It may manifest as dry skin, stronger thirst, constipation, variable energy levels and variable digestion. You may find yourself wanting a second power nap each day, or you eat something you’ve been eating for months, and out of the blue you’re saddled with gas and indigestion.

How can you counter this tendency towards Vata imbalance? Apply the opposite! One tenant of treatment in Ayurveda is to look at the qualities of your imbalance (cool, dry, light, variable) and then incorporate practices and foods that have the opposite quality (warm, oily, heavy, steady).

Warm oil, used externally and internally (through diet), is one of the main ways to support balance for vata. Remove raw food and salad from your diet, and incorporate proteins, grains, and vegetables cooked with oil and warming spices such as turmeric, ginger cumin, and fenugreek. Try warming, moistening teas such as licorice, cinnamon, and ginger – yum!

The other must do practice is Abhyanga, or Ayurvedic Self Massage. As the winds pick up and temperatures drop, our minds move to visions of being warm and swaddled. I think about bundling in a blanket with a warm drink in front of a fire place. To kick the “swaddling” effect up a notch, incorporate a massage with warm oil into your daily routine. Oil is heavy and moisturizing. When it is warmed, rubbed on the body, and allowed to absorb for a period of time without any movement or stimulation, the oil creates a steadying effect on the nervous system. I experience it as a “downshift” in my nervous system, a deep calm. This is one of the most effective ways to counter the variable (i.e., moving all over the place) quality of vata. Try organic sesame oil which is heavy and warming, or if you tend to get overheated, use organic sweet almond oil or organic olive oil.

Choose a bathrobe you don’t mind getting some oil residue on! Place your bottle of oil in a cup of hot water to warm it up. Find a seat, and take a moment to acknowledge the time and care you are taking for yourself through this practice. With the bathrobe and/or towel underneath you, begin by oiling your head and scalp using circular motions. Place a small amount of oil on your index finger and rub just inside your nostrils and just inside your ears. Rub the outside of the ears as well. Massage your face, and then upward along the sides, back and front of the neck. Use long strokes to rub oil into the arms, and circular motions at the wrist, elbow, and shoulder joints. Follow the same routine on the legs, knees, and ankles. Now move to the navel, chest, and back rubbing in a clockwise direction. Oil the hips, buttocks, lower back and lower abdomen. The pelvis is the home of vata in the body (where it is most concentrated) – so take care not to skip this area! To finish, oil the soles and tops of your feet, toes, hands and fingers. Massage your skin as if you were being given a professional massage – with loving presence and patience. Take your time and feel the sensation of the skin being nourished.

Now wrap yourself in a bathrobe, blanket, pajama bottoms, socks –whatever allows you to feel cozy and warm, and sit in a pleasant space. Sip warm water, warm tea, relax, or meditate. Avoid stimulating your senses in any way (This is not the time to clean the house or check your iPhone!). Sit quietly for 10-20 minutes and feel the “swaddling” effect of the oil and cozy clothing and blankets. When complete, shower and begin your day.

Short on time? Focus on your head, nose, ears, lower back, hands, and feet – the areas with the most nerve endings. Pay attention and notice any changes in your body sensations, mood, and the flow of your day. Abhyanga sets a calm, centered tone for your day as it supports detoxification, stimulation of the immune system, circulation of energy flow, and softness and luster to the skin. Happy swaddling!

About Sarah

Sarah Guglielmi has been on a personal journey of healing and spiritual growth for over 15 years. She has taught yoga since 2002 in corporate, studio, and clinical settings. Originally drawn to yoga practice to relieve chronic stress and illness, Sarah has not only regained her health, but has discovered a spiritual dimension of life she finds rich and inspiring. Sarah serves on the teaching faculty of the Himalayan Institute and is the Professional Education Manager at their headquarters, where she has lived in residence since 2004. She holds a Masters Degree in Materials Engineering from the University of Delaware, and completed an eight-year engineering career with W.L. Gore and Associates, prior to joining the Institute.

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Dear AA,
I call this time of year “Blue Fall.” Why do I feel blue every time Autumn comes around? I love the color of the leaves and the start of the football season, but somehow I always feel a little weepy. Would seasonal cleansing help me with this?


Dear Blue Fall,

I hear ya! For years I felt melancholy every Autumn. While I love the bright colors of the leaves— I live in New England, lucky me!— and the kids going back to school, I use to get a bit nostalgic and feel the need to take extra time getting my daily activities done. This is often what happens when we feel “blue”— we take a little more time to savor and become more aware of how our feelings are connected to our behaviors and the environment.

Ayurveda acknowledges that Ritu charya (seasonal change in our routines) is important to pay attention to, as we are part of nature and reflect the same elements in our body and mind.

When the heat leaves— as it does in nature when the leaves look as if they are on fire— what is left is very light, dry, hard and can blow away with ease. As we move from Summer (Pitta Dosha) to Autumn and early Winter (Vata Dosha), we are also moving from intensity to dispersement, from hyper-awareness and singular focus to a more floating and multi-focused energy. This can be a time of letting go and moving on.

Ayurveda has a lot to offer us to navigate these seasonal changes: food lists, pranayama, asana, deep relaxation and dinacharya (daily routine). I call these changes our “Seasonal Glitches”. Here are some ways I help myself transition, and be kind to myself when the residue of grief or letting go makes me a bit blue and I naturally slow down.

KT’s Top 5 Tips to Navigate the Pitta to Vata Transition without the Blues

  1. SLOW DOWN! Yep, this is the first step to a smooth transition from Summer to Autumn.
  2. Detach from sensory overstimulation. Let yourself have time and space to move through feelings and let them go. This means less TV or computer, and more walks (keep your ears covered from the wind!) to spend time in nature.
  3. Decrease processed foods in your diet and eat the bounty of the season! Use yummy warming spices and take special care to savor every bite.
  4. Practice restorative yoga daily. Even one or two supported poses that allow you to rest in the pose for 5 to 10 minutes will help you to surrender the mind and body, and aid in your seasonal transition.
  5. Use warm oil to massage your body before bathing. I like to use warming and calming aroma therapy in my sesame oil. If that oil is too heavy, sweet almond oil is a lovely option.

Don’t worry Blue Fall! This is a natural season to feel melancholy, but allowing yourself to move through those feelings will help you flow into the season of Vata with greater ease and resiliency. Autumn cleansing is about making space to rejuvenate and bring sweetness, softness, moisture and love to each cell in your body. Remember, you are of value, resilient, adaptable and deeply loved.

xo,
AA

Guest post graciously contributed by Liz Ritoli

Apples of all kinds are coming in and my first inclination is to put them into my oatmeal for breakfast. Sometimes I have this as a light dinner with whole grain toast and ghee.

1. In a small pan, measure:

  • 1 cup + 2 Tablespoons of water
  • 1 small apple, cored, peeled (optional if organic), and chopped into 1/2 inch cubes
  • 1 Tablespoon raisins
  • 1/4 teaspoon cinnamon
  • 1/4 teaspoon cardamom
  • Pinch of salt

2. Bring to a low boil.

3. Simmer covered for about 5 minutes…

Or, until the apples are cooked and the raisins are plump.

4. Add rolled oats.

1/2 cup of rolled oats go into to the simmering water and cook on low until the oats are done. For creamier oatmeal, add the oats at the beginning and cook all together.

To enhance the nourishing effects, hang by the stove while the spices and apples are cooking.  The spicy fragrance and the warm steam from the pot is a great way to wake up your senses.

It’s going to be rainy this Columbus Day weekend and I’m pretty sure I’ll be eating this more than once!

Guest post graciously contributed by Ginny Mazzei.

The crisp, clear, dry days of autumn are perfect for ramping up our ojas-enhancing routines. The best way to nourish ojas year-round is to honor seasonal changes to help keep the doshas in balance during times of transition. Ojas, the vital essence of kapha dosha, is the end-result of optimal digestion. It gives us vitality, stamina, and a sturdy immune system— especially helpful for the cold months that lie ahead. Enhancing good digestion is an obvious way to build ojas. Other powerful ways include restorative, rejuvenative practices, and observances that deepen a sense of devotion and gratitude.

Here are a few tips for building ojas in the autumn.

1. Oil Massage

Ojas is boosted with nurturing self-care. Now is the time for daily self-massage (abhyanga) with a warming oil such as sesame. If you already have a daily abhyanga practice, consider some extra oiling of the pelvis, the hallowed seat of vata dosha. I like to add an extra 20 circular strokes to the back of the pelvis/small of the back, the lower abdomen, and the hips. This nurturing action provides great seasonal support to the main seat of Vata, and in turn supports the vital essences.

2. Turmeric Milk

That chill in the air can make you crave something warm and yummy. Enjoy a mug of warm turmeric milk an hour or so before bedtime.

Here’s how:

  1. In a small saucepan, add:
    • ¼ cup of water
    • 1 cup of milk from a happy cow
    • ½ to 1 teaspoon of turmeric
    • a pinch of nutmeg and cinnamon (if you’d like)
  2. Bring to a soft boil.
  3. Remove from the heat and let the mixture cool to a temperature that is easy to sip.
  4. Once the mixture has cooled down, you can add a bit of raw honey for extra sweetness.

The ingredients of milk, honey, and turmeric are known for their ojas-enhancing qualities. Plus, a warm milk drink close to bedtime helps induce a nice, deep sleep – another way to fortify ojas.

3. Give Thanks

It’s interesting to note that even in our fast-paced, high-tech culture, we reserve a day in November to give thanks and recognize the blessings of abundance from the harvest. Creating a small ritual around mealtimes that includes pausing and giving your full attention, awareness, and thanks for what you are about to ingest is a wonderful way to insure a daily dose of gratitude. And gratitude ups ojas.

4. Re-set Your Digestion with an Autumn Rejuvenative Cleanse

This final suggestion is not classically considered an ojas-builder. If you look at the qualities of ojas and the qualities of those things that build ojas, the common theme is one of fortifying or adding substance: milk, honey, warming oil, and sweet and positive thoughts. Cleansing comes in the camp of purification. Yet, a rejuvenative Autumn cleanse is just the ticket to reduce ama, strengthen agni, reset your digestive capacity, and set the stage for the kind of superior tissue-building that will result in superfine ojas.

How to do a Fall Rejuvenation? Check out Kathryn’s upcoming e-book!

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Dear AA, 
Why do I have such a hard time getting up in the morning? I’m a male, in my 30s, and my yoga teacher tells me I have a lot of vata.
Signed,
Sleepyhead


 

Dear Sleepyhead,

Well, first let me share that you are not alone! I am not sure of your yoga teacher’s diagnosis of Vata imbalance, but I can give an explanation to some of the general ayurvedic reasons folks have trouble getting started in the morning.

There is a concept in ayurveda that dictates how time, in our 24 hours system of day and night, connects to our doshas. This explains why we have certain tendencies, regardless of our dosha constitution, at different times of the day. For example, at high noon when the sun is at her brightest, we are best at digestion! All digestion—in our physical bodies, mental body, energetic body, spiritual body..

If we were talking, I would ask you two important questions about your sleep. These questions would help me gather necessary info to better understand your sluggish mornings. First question, do you sleep through the night? This is important as if your sleep is broken you will be tired when the morning comes round! Back to the ayurvedic clock..in the middle of the night, around 2am, our ayurvedic clock moves from pitta to vata energetically. This is often when folks report “break through” waking, also known as “broken sleep”. We move from a focused energy of pitta to the lighter, dispersed energy of vata. It is often a time when folks wake and then go back to sleep. Our 90 minute sleep cycle gets off rhythm (vata) and we can have trouble getting any quality of sleep before dawn.

The other question is a two parter :)  First, do you have any trouble falling asleep? And second, what time to you go to bed? 

Here is the skinny on this situation! Our ayurvedic clock tells us that after 6pm we are under the gaze of kapha. Then transitions into the fiery and focused Pitta energy around 10pm. SO… the magic time to get to bed in ayurvedic medicine is around 10 or 11pm (depending upon season). If you miss this window you might just “light the midnight oil” and “burn the candle at both ends”! Often folks have trouble falling asleep if they go to bed later than 10ish. Or they have trouble falling asleep as they have not been engaging in relaxation for the hour before bedtime. Going at full speed and dropping off into exhaustion often is a false sense of rest. Rather this creates a short deep sleep and then break through or broken sleep as the clock hits 2 or 3am.

More to say about this…ayurvedic considerations to begin to support a bright-eyed and bushy-tailed morning…how are your adrenal glands functioning? Try taking your dinner closer to 6pm so you have time to digest before bed at 10. Start a deep relaxation practice in the afternoon or evening: 31 points, or 61 points of light to help your body and mind get ready for sweet dreams! And…there is always our nighty-night rasayana to help with getting to sleep and staying asleep!

Rise and Shine Sleepyhead,

AA

 

Dear Ayurvedic AbbieDear Ayurvedic Abbie,

I have been diagnosed with anxiety and I am taking medication prescribed by my medical doctor. I don’t like taking medications and I was wondering what ayurveda says about treating anxiety. 

I have always been a little on the nervous side. It seems that my ability to sleep, relax, and focus have all gotten progressively worse since my mother died 2 years ago, at age 75. She was always there for me and my family. I have lost weight, not such a bad thing really, and have had trouble with what my family calls “getting all worked up over nothing.” 

Any tips you can share to help me? Will I be on medications for the rest of my life? I love my yoga classes and used to do a little meditation, but lately it seems I just fall asleep in meditation and cannot seem to get to class. 

Flustered,
Nervous Natalie

 

Dear NN,

First let me say I am sorry that someone you love—your mother—has died. Loss strikes all of us differently. The relationship between the person we love, who has died, might have served us in a way that we did not realize while they were alive. I want to come back to this thought in a moment.

One great thing about ayurveda is that we can support western medicine with lifestyle and healthy seasonal eating without conflict. I cannot answer your questions about medications, only the doctor who made the diagnosis and prescribed the medication can answer those questions. I would suggest you consult your physician, if you have not already, and find out their thinking around medication management and the trajectory of your treatment plan.

When I review the changes that you shared it seems to me that you are having an increase in the qualites of Vata dosha, no surprise I am sure :) I can offer a few suggestions to help manage Vata and support your Ojas (deep vitality, immunity) even without a full ayurvedic consultation, but to get specific I would need more information.

Hang on…I am going to nerd out for a bit…

Our mind-body connection is organized on many platforms or koshas. In yoga and ayurveda we use various techniques to increase coordination and communication between these systems to enhance our ability to be calm and aware. The Parasympathetic Nervous System (PNS) and the the Sympathetic Nervous System (SNS) work together to help us navigate life. The SNS “heats us up” to get going when opportunity strikes or there are threats while the PNS “cools us down” to feel safe, empathic and attentive. These partners in our nervous system feed two neural networks, ACC, Anterior Cingulate Cortex (ACC) and the Amygdala Hub, that create how we view and respond/react to our lives.

When the ACC and the Amygdala Hub are not in sync there is a disconnect that we identify as a miscommunication between our head and our heart. Now true, both of these complexes are in our brain, along the neuroplexis, but in ayurveda the mind and the heart are the same organ. This being true, the lack of coordination between the ACC and the Amygdala Hub can create all kinds of difficulty in our ability to feel safe, attentive, motivated, empathetic and aware. The logical ACC and the emotional Amygdala complex create tranquility and steadiness when in sync.

Sorry about all that, but much of what it sounds like is happening is the head and heart are not having clear communication. Grief, the loss of your mother, among other issues, might be creating some of the issues that are troubling you: sleeplessness, weight loss, trouble focusing, and a decrease in emotional durability.

I invite you to listen to a little talk about grief . I would suggest you start to take three meals a day, largest at noon, with warm and moist foods only. At bedtime, try this Nighty Night Drink, please don’t skip the saffron as it helps support ojas along with the warm milk, ghee and honey! In the morning, please start your day with some self-care and focus on the warm oil self-massage called abhyangha (try the vata balancing Banyan Botanicals oil). You are correct about the importance of your medication in your healing process. While tough to take as a wellness focused gal, it is what will support your Tarpaka or grey matter and PNS. Sometimes, we need outside support (like medication) to help us get through the day, to our therapy, yoga class or be able to manage rough days or what I call the “sway of the wave”. After a while, with support, self care and tenderness we can paddle out in the surf and get up on the board ourselves…..until then, a little yoga nidra, warm abyhanga (self oil massage),nighty night drink, and a mindfulness towards feeding yourself nourishing, digestible foods will go a long way to getting you ready to go back out and ride the waves of joy~

Blessings,

Ayurvedic Abbie

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Dear Ayurvedic Abbie,

Please help! I have eczema that comes and goes generally around my fingers and sometimes on my legs. Lately, I have been getting it on my face near my eyes—what can I do?  I look all scaley and my eyes itch and burn. I am told that I have a pitta (fire) nature but I always get confused on those dosha tests. Sometimes I think I am a Vata, sometimes I think I am a Pitta? I am 50 years old and practice yoga almost every single day. My doctor said it would go away with a gentle, all natural moisturizer and to use Visine for the itching. Got any other ideas?

Love,

Dry-Eyed Yogi 

 


 

Dear Dry Eye,

Do not worry, in fact, worry itself can create more issues for you! I am putting my money on the idea that you “gotta lotta vata” and some high fire too.  You may be a dual dosha, Vata-Pitta, and that is why you get “confused” on those dosha tests… don’t worry it happens to us all. :)

We have a few ayurvedic home remedies that might help calm your nerves and soothe your skin at the same time. Sound good? First of all, try a cooling diet with veggies of the season. Use dark green veggies with some ghee (clarified butter) and Vata Churna spices.

Without a consultation it is difficult to know how to bring you back to balance, but we can do some general calming and cooling that should decrease the agitation of your blood and calm your skin. Ayurveda supports your doctor’s idea of moisture. I use medicated ghee on my skin when it becomes dry, hot and flakey. Eczema can be either an imbalance of V,P or K. When Kapha, it is gooey and will ooze in which case you want to dry it out. You did not describe your excema like that, rather yours sounds dry, inflamed and itchy. Those words mean we have the qualities of vata being expressed and some high pitta too. We need warm moist oil, in this case ghee, and we want to soothe the skin by mixing bhrami into the ghee. You can purchase this at www.banyanbotanicals.com or make it at home.

Other options that are easy to get and simple to use with excellent effect are: rose water spritz to the skin, aloe vera gel or two tablespoons of the juice internally, turmeric, coriander. Helpful therapies for external application include rose water, coconut juice, Aloe Vera gel, coriander leaf juice, a paste made of turmeric, sandalwood and neem is excellent as well (be careful around the eye as it can stain) or taking this turmeric along with saffron in a nighty-night drink can be useful to soothe the overtaxed immune system too!

There are a few other things I would suggest you try to do as we move into the season of summer: try reducing any hot and spicy foods, maybe take a gentle kitchari cleanse to balance your agni, drink coconut water to cool you down, start a practice of yoga nidra or deep relaxation daily for 20 or 30 minutes. Once the excema clears, use cucumber on your eyes in the afternoon for 10 minutes as a refresher, and practice alternate nostril pranayama to help you balance your right and left hemispheres and calm your mind.

Hope you’re feeling bright eyed and rejuvenated very soon~
Blessings,

Ayurvedic Abbie

In Ayurveda, we know that at the seasonal change we will need to make some real adjustments. Not only do we need to readjust ourselves to the new temperature, we need to detoxify our body from the accumulation of the season before. Why? When we accumulate the elements of the environment we can be imbalanced as nature changes. Ayurveda says, “As outside, so inside”. So, when it is cold, hard, dry and light (as in winter) we need to take opposite action so our physical functions can be counter balanced; so warm soups, hot cocoa, root veggies—all foods that help us stay in balance. When we get to spring, the outside changes. We have lush, dense, heavy and stable forces at play in nature. So we need to adjust our foods and spices to counter balance.

When we do not counter balance, seasonal qualities are building and then we have trouble with digestion. When our digestion is imbalanced we often see the accumulation of undigested toxins in our system. Ayurveda notes that these undigested food toxins, that are not evacuated as waste, are the root of our symptoms that can cause us to feel those seasonal change symptoms. We call this undigested waste “ama”.

So poor digestive fire (agni) + build up of elements will create = ama :(

Here is the good news, you can get rid of ama! It takes only a little attention and effort. Starting a cleanse to detox the ama during this seasonal change is a great start!

Here are a few other tips on how to get yourself ama-free:
1. Sip hot water all day long for 3 to 5 days. Yep, no extra fancy stuff, just good ol’water.

2. Take Triphala two times daily. I find it best to take it in the morning and in the evening*

3. Watch your food intake and make a few simple changes: try to eat your biggest meal in the middle of the day, eat warm, moist foods, and try eating three meals a day.

Here is to a cleaner, lighter, more energetic ama-free you!

* Triphala is the name of an ayurvedic adaptagen for the colon. Tri= three and phala= fruits, so this is a compound of three fruits. Each helps rejuvenate one of the doshas and together they help to regulate your colon to support proper waste management! You can take as a capsule or tablet, about 500 mg am and pm to start. Or you can put 1/4 to 1/2 teaspoon of the herbs in a 6oz glass of water and let it stand, covered, overnight. In the morning simply drink the water and leave the herb, then repeat and drink the infused water at night before bed. Then empty the old herb and put in more to start the process all over again.

What is all the hubbub about springtime cleansing? Well, in Ayurveda we call these seasonal changes the “glitches” that can either create havoc or help us swim with ease in the river of life.

So how do you know when you need to cleanse?

Here are a few hints…

When we move from the cold, rough, hard, icy, cold winter to the wet, heavy, cool and dense and gooey spring we can see our bodies express this change with various symptoms.

• Seasonal Allergies Why? Moving from the light and dry winter to the heavy and wet spring will create issues if we are imbalanced. Those imbalances show up in a variety of symptoms. The most common are spring allergies that bring mucous-related issues. Tissues, wet cough, post nasal drip or stuffy noses…all signs of excess kapha or springtime qualities.

• Inflammation issues Wait, if this is a meeting of Vata and Kapha how can it profit a Pitta or inflammation imbalance? Well, when we are dehydrated, fatigued and hit a wall (heavy energy of kapha) we will see swelling. This means “itis”—sinusitis, gastritis, ear infections, eye stys, and uncomfortable joints or headaches,

• Sleep Issues Either way, feeling sluggish and lethargic so all you want to do is sleep, or an ability to sleep by the buildup of winter qualities that can spike our anxiety and stress response.

• Weight Gain Yep, our digestion will move from taking sweet tastes to support building and supporting tissues all winter to taking astringent, bitter and pungent tastes that are the boon of the seasonal harvest of spring. These tastes help us detoxify and lighten up. However, the excess sweet mixed with the heavy quality of Spring can create sluggish digestion. This means we are less likely to detoxify and often get clogged drains (John Douillard) or lymph. When the lymph tissue is clogged, the digestion is slow, we gain weight, water retention or fat tissue.

So ayurveda recommends this as the ideal time of year to cleanse. The concept of cleansing is a specific idea in ayurveda, to detoxify the Vata elements—light, dry, hard, rough and mobile qualities of winter so we can embrace the inherent qualities of spring with greater ease. This is not done by starving. This is done with creating a mono diet with specific spices and herbs, teas and practices that support healthy detoxifying. More to come on cleansing.

I find myself in situations where I see something happening and I feel a deep response to blurt out, “NO! That is not true!”… I have learned to stop this, because as you might have guessed, it has created some real issues for me. (Darn hot head!)

Still, when I ‘see’ situations where there is a lack of integrity—a ‘fast one’ being pulled—I find myself taking action to shine a light on the event. I am always hopeful that others will support me in shifting the situation into the realm of awareness so we can work toward a resolution…a consciousness resolution.

So what changed? I have not really become a ‘cooler mind’ but I now seem to have a little, tiny, crack of light (awareness) that there is something larger than just my vision at play. I have realized that there is a time and a place to pull out my torch and let the truth be illuminated. It still must be done but in a compassionate and timely manner. I suppose one would say, with grace.

I am diligently working on cultivating grace as I still get in trouble for ‘blowing the cover’ on people, events, secrets that hurt. My pal Sue says that the ‘truth tellers have a responsibility’ and part of our dharma is to play that role. I agree and yet, I do not like to be singled out as the “bad guy” who threw the whole operation in a spin because I did not go along with the (unconscious) plan. Heck, I am a parent of three teenagers, sometimes it is nice to step out of the responsible role and be just plain liked!

Yet, just as in parenting, when your teenagers ‘like’ you or are your ‘friend’ you can bet there is trouble a-brewing :) It is everyone’s responsibility to support right action (in yoga-speak we would say good karma). All of us are tapped to ‘shine the light of awareness’ on ourselves, and those who are ‘under cover’ or unconsiousness. This mutual global, social, community, interpersonal action of ‘truth telling’ is called vydia. Living in the light of knowledge, the light of awareness.

Vydia can sometimes be experienced as what we bump into that ‘wakes us up.’ Often that wake up call can be painful, humilitaing, embarassing, or worse…but, at the end of the day we are all supported by these truths. They are gifts to each of us. These truths move us closer to who we truly are and allow us a chance to be compassionate and accepting of ourselves.

So lay off, let’s give the truth tellers a break! Make us a cuppa’ chai and hold our hand. Let us know that despite the “ouch” of the truth, you appreciate our courage and fearlessness to throw back the cover…that compassion, a sweet hug, will help us to grow in grace~